Friday, February 29, 2008

Day 1 China


























I promised I would write!
Day 1 China...

Yesterday we boarded the plan for China, even though we had a 1 1/2 hour stall on the tarmack due to a satelite system failure, we knew we were going to be fine=) Just that morning we all met up at the airport, Denise Fattal of Silver Creek Valley Country Club and I, had never met Karen Casey of Karen Casey Events in GA before, but we knew we liked her though e-mail and phone=) Just as we suspected Karen has become a fast friend! From the moment we met her face-to-face we knew we just met someone near and dear to us. Karen and I, and my Husband Matt, had never met Denise's Husband Robert before either, and in knowing what a wonderful person Denise is, we also suspected great things in Robert, and we were right! We clicked with each other from the start! This was going to be a great adventure with good friends by our sides!

The flight was good, a little bumpy, but really not that bad. Long is a good way to describe it. But we took the opportunity to get to know one another much better, although it felt as if we had been friends for years. Karen and I spoke about the differences between East Coast and West Coast weddings, and I was and am still amazed at the stark differences we have. She also called me over to her window seat to look down on a frozen landscape, Russia! Wow, we flew over Russia and saw an ice-sealed ocean like the ones in movies and on TLC!

We were all so happy to land in one piece, and when we got through customs, quarantine, and baggage claim we were hoping to then find our host to pick us up. Sure enough, there was John, our host, and CFO of Chinese International Wedding Expo, with a big sign that had my name on it. He was so nice from the beginning! He showed us to the car, got our luggage loaded up, and then we were off. Robert was brave and offered to go in the car that could only fit one passenger, the driver was John's employee, but he couldn't speak any English, it was sure to be, and was a long hour long drive for Robert, thank you Robert!

John took us on a route to our hotel that allowed us to see the Olympic buildings from our car windows. We saw some amazing structures, especially the "Bird's Nest", it's so cool!

When we arrived to our hotel we got checked in, said goodbye to John for the night, planning to meet up at 8AM the next morning in the lobby to head to the Expo.

We all got settled into our new homes (rooms). Although a little smokey and hot (no smoke-free areas in China, and apparently no a/c that works in our hotel), things were good.

Now Thursday night is date night in our household, a time for Matt and I to spend time with one another, appreciate each other's company, and relax and have fun together. It just so happens to be the same night that Denise and Robert celebrate date night together! Matt and I needed to have dinner, and we invited Karen along. It was late, and we didn't feel to adventurous, so we stuck to the hotel restaurant food. We went to their Chinese Food Restaurant (yes, that's what it is called) and looked over the menu. Karen (being 3 hours ahead of us, so even more exhausted) literally felt drained and sleepy, and decided she wasn't really hungry, but more delirious, so she went back up to her room before we ordered. Matt and I ordered some pot stickers and noodles and some potatoe latka things that were really good. And beer. Matt read a lot of our Beijing travel book before leaving, and especially remembered the names of beer he wanted to try, and so we did, yummy, and a natural sleeping pill.

So, after eating we went back to our room, showered with our mouths closed tight (can't get water in your mouth), and brushed our teeth with bottled water. Then we hit the bed, man we were EXHAUSTED! Its a good thing we are jet lagged and worn down because the bed is fondly called "the Flinstones bed" by Robert, and for good reason! It's like sleeping on a board, but Matt's hoping it will help realign his neck=)

We woke up this morning, got ready, used the crazey tube-shaped in-room blow drier for my fur, and then made our way down to meet up with our host John to head to the expo. On the way to the expo John brought us to the Chinese version on McDonalds, and we had warm soy milk, and some doughnut thingys. We were brave and ate with smiles on our faces!

Then we went to the expedition center to get ready for our speeches. The expedition center is a huge regal building in the middle of a bustling Beijing (a city much like the Silicon Valley, and with some of the same companies present too). We were allowed through the red tape the gates around the expo center presented when John flashed his badge, and we headed inside. Inside we made it to the room for the speeches. We were three of less than 10 keynote speakers that day and were treated graciously with bottled waters and front row seats. Before we even spoke people were requesting photos with us! My speech was first on Trends in the US Wedding Industry, and then Denise was second with How Wedding Consultants Struture and Market their Services, and Trends In Wedding Attire, then last we went out with a bang with Karen Caseys speech on Creating A Memorable Wedding Space (design trends in the US). All speeches were well-recieved. They loved our power point presentations with tons of detailed photos, and the LOVED Karen's three or four short 3 minute films of her past weddings, they were amazing!!! Think weddings made for TV! People were so happy with the information we gave them. Karen even brough a few sample DVDs of one of the clips she played during her speech and then gave them away at the end by asking "who can say at least one sentence with 5 different English words in it?" Those who answered correctly were so excited! Those not so lucky were really sad not to get one, and they made sure to keep asking the rest of the night if we had anymore. Heheheheeh. Karen had my Husband Matt help her with the technical part of her presentation, and she introduced him as her "Tech Support", the girls in the audienced swooned and giggled, aparently they liked what they saw! Man, I'd better watch him close here!
We have an ACPWC member, Kate Magg from Hong Kong who was suppossed to meet up with us tonight for dinner, but our cell phones weren't working (and still aren't, thanks Verizon and Cingular!), and we couldn't get a hold of her. So, during our final speech, we were all up on stage fielding questions from the audience when I had a stroke of genious! "Why don't we use the microphone to ask if Kate is here?" Well, that's just what we did, we had our FABULOUS translator Luling ask the audience, and we found her way in the back waving at us! After we found her we had her sit with us for the duration of the speakers. Then we took her and her sister in law who accompanied her on the trip to the after part for the expo. It was a lot of fun! They had a great buffet, live music, free wine (pretty decent), and lots of photos! We started out with one big one as a group for eveyone in the room, and then later on that snowballed into more and more photos! People love us!

I'm sorry to have neglected the topic of our translator Luling, she's amazingly sweet, kind, and funny! I'm so happy we have her bright attitude to help guide the way for the 2nd and 3rds activities! Deborah you were right! Ann, she's the perfect future ACPWC professor for China!

I also forgot to mention that we did get to look around the expo a bit, and it was awesome! The booth sizes at their exposes are as big as a 1/8 of a ballroom here! Wayyy bigger. It was very cool to see. They had all the typical vendors. The goal of the expo was to create a safe place for Brides and Grooms to plan their entire weddings in three days, good luck with that!

Well, it's getting late, and my eyes are closing themselves. I need to go brush my teeth with boiled water and then crawl into my Flinstone's bed with Matt, whose been asleep for a long time now. Tomorrow our host John has been so gracious as to take us to the Great Wall of China, Tienaman Square, and the Forbidden City. I'm sure I'll have plenty more adventures to write to you then!

For now, shishi!(that's what thank you sounds like here),

Love,

Nicole, Matt, Karen, Denise, Robert

Monday, February 4, 2008

You are invited to Creme de la Creme A Bridal Rendezvous!!!


Dear Brides and Grooms,


I'd like to invite you to attend my couture bridal showcase, Creme de la Creme A Bridal Rendezvous!


It will be held Sunday March 16th, 2008 from 1 to 4PM at the Toll House Los Gatos located at 140 S. Santa Cruz Avenue, Los Gatos, CA.


More information about the show and complimentary R.S.V.P. can be found at www.nicoledambra.com/cdlc


I came up with the idea for this show after going to a large bridal show with one of my clients. At the end of the show she was tired from walking around and talking for several hours. She was also overwhelmed by the amount of information at the show! There were at least 60-80 wedding professionals at the show, and so many of their services overlapped (3 or 4 photographers, 4 or 5 videographers, 4 or 6 floral designers, etc...) Each professional only had moments to spend on each Bride or Groom at the show. I couldn't blame her for feeling like it was a whirlwind experience.


My new years resolution for my company was to focus more on what it used to feel like to be a Bride myself, and to really speak to the needs of a Bride and Groom in the planning stages. I decided to focus on the word "experience". Brides and Grooms are always searching for new ideas to make their Wedding fun and unique, and them! They Google for ideas, they read expensive magazines, they search the web like crazey people just looking for that next perfect idea or wedding professional! Well, the best gift I can give you is to experience the best the wedding industry has to offer all in one beautiful afternoon. Believe me, it's much more fun than sitting in front of your computer for hours!!!


Creme de la Creme A Bridal Rendezvous will be an experience not to miss! I have hand selected one of each of the best wedding professionals in the San Francisco Bay Area, the Creme de la Creme you might say. These professionals have been invited by me to participate, and they have not solicited me to be a part of the showcase. They also are not required to pay me anything to be a part of this showcase. Why you ask? Because, I want these wedding professionals to spend the money they would have spent paying to attend a show, on creating a booth that wows the senses and shows off their talents so that you can experience the show, not just attend. There will be photobooths to try out, music to hear, models to see wearing couture gowns and fine suits and tuxedos, custom expresso to taste, wines to try, desserts to sample, hors d'oeuvres to nibble, and champagne to sip on, tours to take, bouquets to hold, jewels to try, design ideas to inspire you, and soo much more! After this show you won't be tired and your head won't be spinning, but you may want to go back for more! And by all means do!


I hope that you can attend my show!


Remember, it's complimentary! www.nicoledambra.com/cdlc


Many huggs, Happy, stress-free, FUN planning,


Nicole

Friday, February 1, 2008

Featured Wedding Professional for February 2008!!!

Dear Brides and Grooms,

I'm happy to introduce to you our Featured Wedding Professional for February 2008!!!

It is A Video Reflection by David Ethridge www.avideoreflection.net

David is not only a dear friend of mine, but he is one of the most talented wedding videographers you'll find!

David has done videography for over 20 years, and has a real passion for capturing the emotion of your wedding day. Whether he is shooting an intimate wedding for 50, or a large soiree for 500, or a celebrity wedding, he's always a part of the positive energy at each event.

For those of you who don't think you want videography, rethink it! I can't tell you how many of my clients who didn't get videography wished they had. Your wedding day flys by you, and you'll never be able to recapture the emotion, the sound, the movement of the day with only beautiful photography.

If you think wedding videography is cheesy, that's how it used to be! Now it is modern, beautiful, and very much like a movie on the big screen, done with talent, style and grace. Videographers today (especially the ones I refer) don't get in your face with the camera, don't use big invasive lights, and don't get in your photographer's way. They are professional.

I know that many of you don't want videography because of the cost, you feel like it's extra, but it's not an extra cost, it's not a luxury, it is a necessity!!! So if it wasn't in your original budget, look again, find room for it, you'll be glad you did!

David offers a complimentary initial consultation at his office, so feel free to give him a call and tell him I sent you!

408.836.9440

Happy planning!!!

Nicole

On your mark, get set, GO!!!





Ok, so networking...networking can be fun!!!

Usually us wedding pros get together at a soirre, gala, ball, party, mixer, whatever you want to call it, and we network.

Well a dear friend of mine, who also happens to be this months featured wedding professional, David Ethridge of A Video Reflection (http://www.avideoreflection.net/ ), came up with the BEST networking idea...

D&G Go Kart BBQ!!!! (David Ethridge and Geoff White). Hopefully this will be an annual event!

He invited myself, Geoff White (http://www.geoffwhite.com/), John (http://www.enhancedlighting.com/), Rich (http://www.heymrdj.com/ ), Crystal (http://www.amazaespecialevents.com/), Michelle (http://www.mbweddingdesigns.com/), Duncan (http://www.duncanreyes.com/), John & Linnea (http://www.asieldesign.com/), and me, to Go Kart!!!


First of all I'd like to say that Dave's idea was wonderful, considering that he is a Videographer and there were four event planners invited to this networking event, we didn't come up with the idea, and we hardly helped implement it, it was all Dave!

Not only did we get the chance to kick a little butt, but we also got the chance to get to know one another better=)

The top four racers out of ten were:
Geoff White of Geoff White Photography in 1st
David Ethridge of A Video Reflection in 2nd
Rich Amooi of Hey Mr. DJ in 3rd
and our fastest girl! Linnea Gomez of Asiel Design in 4th!!!!

After our race we went back to Geoff and Lara White, of Geoff White Photography's house http://www.geoffwhite.com/ (thank you guys for hosting!) and had a wonderful BBQ. Geoff and Lara provided the amazing hors d'oeuvres, and David Ethridge BBQ'd salmon caught in Alaska and tri-tip. John Senior (John with Asiel Design's Father) made some awesome ribs which Dave also BBQ'd=), Thanks for the good food you guys!

Thanks for a great time!


If you want to plan your own trip to Go Kart go to:

http://www.gokartracer.com/

650.692.RACE

1541 Adrian Rd, Burlingame, CA

Hugs,

Nicole (vroom, vroom, vroom)